reTurn, reTurn, reTurn

A Sermon on Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

 

November 3, 2002

 

by Rev. Stephen C. Magee

Exeter Presbyterian Church

 


Introduction:  I hated life...  I hated all my labor...

 

            I want to begin by thanking Rod for preaching last Sunday, and thanking you, the men and women of the church, for the part that you play week in and week out in using your gifts for God's glory here at Exeter Presbyterian Church.  Doug mentioned to me on Wednesday night how encouraged he was to see how well the ministry in the church proceeded during our week away at the conference in Atlanta.  While a part of you just wants to be missed, the greater part is thankful to the Lord who gives gifts throughout the church.  The fact that weekday morning worship, Sunday School, instruction of the young people of the church, and various activities of service and learning are able to proceed without the pastor being in town warms my heart, as I continue to see God use you in great ways.

            When I last preached to you two weeks ago, we considered the center of the first of three cycles of this book of wisdom.  That first cycle is a reflection on the fleeting nature of even a very productive and wise life.  At the center of the cycle, Solomon tells his own story.  Today we conclude this first cycle of the book with a very familiar passage.  Before we consider the very poetic conclusion of Solomon's own story, I want to take a moment to consider where we left off with the story of Solomon.  We have been thinking about the fleeting nature of human work and wisdom, and in the last few verses from two weeks ago, Solomon says that as he devoted himself to understanding things in the midst of a life of great toil, the more that he thought about it all, the more he hated life.  He says,

2:17 Therefore I hated life because the work that was done under the sun was distressing to me, for all is vanity and grasping for the wind. 18 Then I hated all my labor in which I had toiled under the sun, because I must leave it to the man who will come after me.

            Solomon was not just having a bad day when he wrote these words.  He was speaking the truth.  Because of the fleeting nature of life, the more he thought about things, the more that it bothered him.  He was very blunt about this.  "I hated life... I hated all my labor..."  Why? Because the more I pursued wisdom, the more I saw things as they are.  That no matter how diligently and wisely I pursued my work in this brief life, I could not have any assurance of what would happen as a result of my labors after I died.

            The passage before us today is the best answer I know of to the dilemma that Solomon was rightly expressing from his own life experience.  I want to invite you to stand and to hear the word of God that concludes this first cycle of inspired consideration on the question of the futility of human work and wisdom.

 

    TEXT:  Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

 

                1 To everything there is a season,

                A time for every purpose under heaven:

 

                2 A time to be born,

                And a time to die;

                A time to plant,

                And a time to pluck what is planted;

                3 A time to kill,

                And a time to heal;

                A time to break down,

                And a time to build up;

                4 A time to weep,

                And a time to laugh;

                A time to mourn,

                And a time to dance;

          5 A time to cast away stones,

                And a time to gather stones;

                A time to embrace,

                And a time to refrain from embracing;

                6 A time to gain,

                And a time to lose;

                A time to keep,

                And a time to throw away;

                7 A time to tear,

                And a time to sew;

                A time to keep silence,

                And a time to speak;

                8 A time to love,

                And a time to hate;

                A time of war,

                And a time of peace.

 

The Sovereignty of God in...

 

            The conclusion of this cycle comes in a very poetic statement about something called the sovereignty of God.  What this phrase means is that, despite all the things that don't seem to make sense to us in this world, God is in charge of everything.  Immediately prior to this passage, after Solomon said that he had come to hate life and hate all his work, the author states that he saw that his labor and all that came from it was from "the hand of God."  He went on to say that "God gives wisdom and knowledge and joy" to the person he determines to give it to.  In fact the entire book of Ecclesiastes is a very strong statement not only of the futility of our life under the sun in this fallen world, but also of the sovereignty of God, who rules over all.  Therefore, when we read over and over again in today's passage about "a time" for this or that under heaven, we are to understand by this that Solomon is referring to the One who is in heaven and who rules over all.  He is the One who has set the times and the seasons for all these things.

            Let us consider for a moment some of the things that God rules over.  We will look at verses two through four, and then verses six through eight, and then return to the middle of the poem in verse five.  In verse two we see that God is the Lord of human life and death.  Yesterday several hundred people attended a memorial service for Gretchen Hills, a mother of four young boys, a devoted wife, a missionary to the Middle East, and a faithful worshiper of God.  Gretchen is now with the Lord.  When I prepare a bulletin for a memorial service, it is always a sobering moment to fill in the year of birth and the year of death on the front cover of the bulletin, but it must be done.  Gretchen had a birth day, and now we can say after these years of fighting cancer that she has had a day of death.  Both of these days are under the sovereign control of God.  It was His good will that this wonderful servant of His would display the victory of faith in the midst of pain and disease, and according to all testimonies He did His work very well in the life and death of Gretchen Hills.  There was a time for her to be planted, and a time for her soul to be harvested, and the good work of God in her life has now been safely gathered in to heaven, "ere the winter storms begin."  We need not have any fear for Gretchen.  None of the decay and misery of this life can touch her where she is.  She is out of harm's way.  She has had the day of her death.  It was the Lord's will to plant her, to cause her to bloom for a season, and to pluck up the fruit when He saw fit.  For He is sovereign over human life and death.

            In verse three we see that the Lord of heaven is not merely in charge of the day of our coming and the day of our going, but also of our human accomplishments between those two days.  For here we see that we are not to imagine that the work of the soldier and the doctor are beyond his power and will.  For there is a time that has been set by Him for all of our actions.  The soldier kills and the doctor heals.  One businessman builds up, and another tears down.  But all soldiers, doctors, entrepreneurs, and workers, all who labor toward various accomplishments, are under the sovereign power of God.  All people and all their actions have a set time and purpose known to Him who works all things according to the good pleasure of His holy will (Ephesians 1:11).

            We see in verse four that our God is the Lord not only of all human life and action, He is even the Lord of all human events and emotions.  For there is a time that He has established for weeping and laughing, for mourning and for dancing.  We tend to think of ourselves as in charge of our own destinies, yet as time moves forward in our lives we see another Hand above who is working His will.  We tend to think of ourselves as in charge of our own accomplishments or failures, but we learn that there is a Hand above who causes one man to rise to fame, while another lives a quieter life in simplicity.  But surely we are in charge of our feelings, we suppose.  Yet think about this for a moment.  Is there anyone here who doubts that the Lord of Creation and Providence could not make us weep this morning within an hour of this service of worship being completed.  Or could not the Lord of all bring us to dancing full of joy within that same period of sixty minutes.  Think about this with me.  What would it take for you to be brought to tears?  On the other hand, what would it take for you to have such spontaneous joy that you would dance?  Events of some kind...  Some longed for person or thing...  Some good or bad news from a distant land...  Some peace that passes understanding in the midst of some trial...  Is not the Lord God in charge of all these things.  You could try to hold back the tears with all your might, but if He chooses to in all His great wisdom and love, He can bring about a time of mourning, or conversely a time of great celebration within the next hour.  He is God.

            Up to this point I have spoken of three topics in twelve poetic phrases, and I have done this in a somewhat individual way - individual life and death - individual accomplishment or failure - individual celebration or sadness.  I now want to skip over the middle four phrases in verse five, and continue with the final twelve phrases, looking at these in a more communal way.  For God is sovereign not only over individual lives, actions, and emotions, but He is also sovereign over the rise and fall of all human nations and societies. 

            In verse six, then, we are to consider that God is not only sovereign over individual gaining and losing, but also over the seeking after gain, and the losing of what was once gained that takes place on a societal level.  As we see the nations of the world, we see that natural resources are not evenly distributed.  We see that cultural conditions that make for prosperity or poverty exist in varying measures in various lands.  The result is that one nation has much, and another is in desperate need.  Do we imagine that these things happen independent of the sovereignty of God?  If we think that way, then we are wrong. 

Psalm 135:6

          Whatever the LORD pleases He does,

                In heaven and in earth,

                In the seas and in all deep places.

            In verse seven, there is a time set for ever act of human justice and judgment.  There are acts of treachery and rebellion that demand an outcry on the part of the righteous.  The prophet Jeremiah speaks of one such instance where the king showed complete contempt for God's Word, by having it thrown into the fire, line by line, as it was read to Him.

Jeremiah 36:22-24 22 Now the king was sitting in the winter house in the ninth month, with a fire burning on the hearth before him. 23 And it happened, when Jehudi had read three or four columns, that the king cut it with the scribe's knife and cast it into the fire that was on the hearth, until all the scroll was consumed in the fire that was on the hearth. 24 Yet they were not afraid, nor did they tear their garments, the king nor any of his servants who heard all these words.

            In Solomon's day as well, one right way to react to this kind of  bad news of God's judgment was the tearing of one's garment.  There is a time set for such tearing within the community of God's people or among the nations of this world, and there is a time for sewing the garment back together again, as the calamity passes.  There is a time for speaking up in the courts of the church or the state.  But also there is a time for holding back speech, even as Christ did in the travesty of justice that took place at his own trial.  These images, if we consider them in terms of communal debate and discourse, speak of the consideration of a people concerning the evil and danger that stands against them, and all of this is under the sovereign hand of God.

            Verse eight, considered in terms of communal application, speaks of the very rise and fall of nations and peoples.  This too is under the sovereignty of God, even though we may not be able to discern what the Lord is doing through such marvelous exercise of His kingly power.  We are brought to recognize the truth that the Babylonian ruler, Nebuchadnezzar, was made to see.  The prophet Daniel warned Him concerning His need to humble Himself before the God of heaven and earth, but at first He did not take adequate heed to this warning.  Daniel told him:

Daniel 4:27-35 27 "Therefore, O king, let my advice be acceptable to you; break off your sins by being righteous, and your iniquities by showing mercy to the poor. Perhaps there may be a lengthening of your prosperity."

      28 All this came upon King Nebuchadnezzar. 29 At the end of the twelve months he was walking about the royal palace of Babylon. 30 The king spoke, saying, "Is not this great Babylon, that I have built for a royal dwelling by my mighty power and for the honor of my majesty?"

      31 While the word was still in the king's mouth, a voice fell from heaven: "King Nebuchadnezzar, to you it is spoken: the kingdom has departed from you! 32 And they shall drive you from men, and your dwelling shall be with the beasts of the field. They shall make you eat grass like oxen; and seven times shall pass over you, until you know that the Most High rules in the kingdom of men, and gives it to whomever He chooses." 33 That very hour the word was fulfilled concerning Nebuchadnezzar; he was driven from men and ate grass like oxen; his body was wet with the dew of heaven till his hair had grown like eagles' feathers and his nails like birds' claws.

      34 And at the end of the time I, Nebuchadnezzar, lifted my eyes to heaven, and my understanding returned to me; and I blessed the Most High and praised and honored Him who lives forever:

      For His dominion is an everlasting dominion,

      And His kingdom is from generation to generation.

      35 All the inhabitants of the earth are reputed as nothing;

      He does according to His will in the army of heaven

      And among the inhabitants of the earth.

      No one can restrain His hand

      Or say to Him, "What have You done?"

            God is in charge of it all, even the rising and falling of nations.  We think that there is no "hate" in God, but He is the one who said, "Jacob I have loved, and Esau I have hated" (Malachi 1:2, Romans 9:13).  There is a time for hate of one people by another, and thus a time of war.  There is a time of cordial relations, a time of love, and thus peace between different peoples, and all of this, as the King learned, is under the sovereign hand of God.

            But there is one set of four phrases in our poem that we have passed over.  They are in verse five and include the most difficult image to understand in this passage.

                5 A time to cast away stones,

                And a time to gather stones;

                A time to embrace,

                And a time to refrain from embracing;

            These words are in the very center of this poem which concludes cycle one.  While we can see readily that "embracing" is a positive thing, yet we wonder when we read the words about casting away and gathering stones, which one of these is the good one, and which one is the bad one.  The two central phrases deal with gathering stones and embracing, and we wonder what possible connection there might be between these things.  Why is Solomon telling us in the center of this passage that God is sovereign in the work of gathering stones and embracing?

            First, if we search the Old Testament for the words that are hear translated "cast away" and "stones,"  we will see that the context is always one of divine judgment.  In Leviticus 14:40, it was the stones that were full of some infectious "plague" that were to be "cast into an unclean place outside the city."  And in several places, an enemy of God and his people, such as the King of Ai in Joshua 8:29, was hanged on a tree, then his body was removed from the tree, cast away some place, and then covered with stones.  There is a connection made between people and stones, where the people are cast away, and then the stones are cast away on top of them.  In Nehemiah 9:11, the people pray to God, reminding Him of His acts of judgment against the Egyptian armies with these words first speaking of the Israelites, and then of their persecutors, the Egyptians:

Nehemiah 9:11 You divided the sea before them, so that they went through the midst of the sea on dry land; and their persecutors You threw into the deep, as a stone into the mighty waters.

So the idea of casting away stones seems to be a picture of God's judgment.

            But what of the idea of gathering stones.  There is only one other place in the Bible where these Hebrew words for gathering and stones are used together.  In 1 Chronicles 22:2, it is recorded that King David gathered people for the work of gathering stones for the building of the temple.  This is very clearly a good picture - a picture of blessing - a picture of being gathered to the place of the presence of God, where God himself dwells.  In the New Testament we learn that we are the temple of the Holy Spirit, and we are called living stones, who are being gathered for God's building, where Christ Himself is the chief cornerstone - a stone that was cast away by men, but Elect and precious in the sight of God (1 Peter 2:4-8).

            If we move ahead for a moment to the imagery of the embrace, we have a picture of turning toward another person with friendship, and even more, with intimacy.  Embracing is what husbands and wives do, among others, but here in the center of this poem, we are looking more for the work of God than for the set times for humans to embrace.  The fact is that God has announced from the earliest chapters of the Bible that He cleaves to His people, as a husband embraces his wife.  The Apostle Paul has spoken in this way in Ephesians 5:

Ephesians 5:31-32 31  "For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." 32 This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church.

            Here at the center of this poem we have two phrases that are both positive right next to each other.  The sovereign God has set a time for gathering stones and a time for embracing.  At the center of God's sovereign work is His divine work of gathering living stones for His temple, embracing them through Christ our Lord.  In all of this and in all things below this, God is sovereign. 

 

Truly, for EVERYTHING there is a season,

and a time for EVERY PURPOSE under heaven.

           

The Importance of a Firm Belief in the Sovereignty of God

 

            I want to briefly press upon you the great importance of this doctrine of the sovereignty of God.  It makes a great deal of difference whether you believe in it.  God is sovereign over individuals, over families, and over nations.  God is sovereign over all physical things, and over all things in spiritual realms.  God is sovereign over all time, past, present, and future.

            If this were not the case, we could have no assurance about anything.  Was the cross simply the work of sinful men, or was it due ultimately to "the determined purpose and foreknowledge of God," as Peter says in Acts 2:23?  Is your response to the cross a matter of only your own inclination, or is it due ultimately to God who draws men to Himself, as we are assured by Jesus in John 6:44 and by Paul in Ephesians 2:1-10?  If we do not believe, not only can we have no peace about the life and death of Gretchen Hills, or about our own pursuit of work and wisdom, we can not even be sure that Christ will return to judge the living and the dead.  If there is one molecule in the universe that is somehow independent of the times and seasons of God's settled purposes, how can any of us here below be sure of the return of Christ? 

 

If God Is Sovereign, What is He Doing?

 

            But it is not enough to believe that God is sovereign.  This passage and the whole of the Scriptures take us further.  God is not sovereign to simply say, "Aha! I am in charge and you are not.  I'm big, you're little.  I'm smart, you're dumb."  All that is true enough, but God in His great wisdom, justice, and mercy has a purpose in His sovereign plan and actions.  And that purpose is displayed in the center four phrases of our text.  Our God will bring great glory to Himself in the judgment of sinners, and in His rescue of His people.

            The Lord is building the temple of the Holy Spirit.  He is building something.  He is embracing someone.  And through the giving of His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, through this Perfect One's life, death, and resurrection, someone is being embraced as a bride.  And all creation yearns for the revealing of the sons of God.  And this shall come to pass.

            Christ is gathering stones.  Christ will embrace the church.  But the harlot of the world will be cast away.  She shall not be embraced.  This is the work that God is sovereignly doing.

 

Conclusion:  Repent - reTurn, reTurn, reTurn.

 

            Brothers and sisters we must turn to Him today with assurance of His love.  This means repentance. 

Q     What is repentance unto life?

A     Repentance unto life is a saving grace, whereby a sinner, out of a true  sense of his sin, and apprehension of the mercy of God in Christ, doth, with  grief and hatred of his sin, turn from it unto God, with full purpose of, and endeavor after, new obedience. (WSC)

            There is a certain way of looking at the verses before us this morning that would be very wrong.  It is the way of Eastern mysticism, that looks on life as an endless cycle of things that just happen - meaningless events outside of the sovereign control of any particular god.  This view says that there is a time for this and a time for that, and the world just keeps on turning and turning, with no particular divine purpose or result.  Such a view is for "The Birds."

            I think that we have something much more wholesome here for "The Mamas and the Papas" of today.  We have a sovereign God with a sovereign purpose, which He will sovereignly accomplish.  He is building the temple, embracing the bride, causing new spiritual life to be born, and a precious vine to be planted that will bear fruit unto eternity.  The lame will be healed, and the family of God built up, and He will wipe away every tear, and make the broken heart to rejoice and dance.  He will seek and save the lost, and keep the church secure.  He will repair what needs mending among his people, and will speak the words "Well done thou good and faithful servant."  He will announce His sweet love to His chosen ones eternally, in a place of settled peace.

            But if this is not satisfactory in your eyes.  Know this also.  This same Savior shall be a judge of those who do not know God, and who do not obey the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ (2 Thes 1:8).  For He will scatter stones, and there are some that He will refrain from embracing.  He will bring the second death, and root up what does not bear fruit.  He will kill, and will tear down, and there will be much mourning and gnashing of teeth.  For the lost will be truly lost, and thrown away into utter darkness, and their garments will be torn and their nakedness exposed.  There will be there no pleasant word of blessing for them, for He will hate His enemies with perfect hatred, and that warfare will never end.

            And this perfect justice of God is what Christ suffered for us on the cross, that dead stones might be brought to life, and then living stones would be built up together into a holy temple for the Lord, that the church of Christ would be gathered and embraced as a bride by the best of all husbands.  This is what you must respond to today.  This is what the sovereign God has ordained.  He calls you to life in light of the tender mercies of Christ toward you.  He calls you to faith and repentance.  Do not turn away from Him, but return to Him

            Dear people, turn and return to the Lover of your souls.

2 Chronicles 7:14 14 "if My people who are called by My name will humble themselves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin and heal their land.